About us

Hi, my name is Dan de Ram.

Yes, what they say about me is true:


…seducing women is NOT my talent.

Not at all!

I was a humble and lonely gamer, addicted to Call of Duty and RPGs.

An underdeveloped manchild, not even capable of seducing a girl if I were to be locked up in a female prison. With me possessing the only key.

But you know how the saying goes: desperation makes resourceful.

I had to come up with something, or I’d remain a kissless virgin for the rest of my life. Deprived of social freedom, sex, and love.

My rescue were the principles and techniques, that I perfected and systematized into my now popular system: FLOW.

Yet, I do have one big talent.

My talent… is teaching other men how to seduce women.

Yes, this is my work, my job, and my passion.

Together with my skilled coaches, we’ve been building on project AttractionGym for over 10 years now. My team and I have just one goal: Giving ordinary guys extraordinary results with women.

I do this by inspiring them with daily mail updates and videos on the best YouTube channel about online dating within the Benelux.

Also during our LIVE-trainings: Our Bootcamps.

And online, in the book with our complete method and history, and online courses like Conversation King.

And I do it all to give today’s feminized man a fatherly kick in the butt. To make him grab his love life by the balls, and take action.

Daily I get mailed or texted by men sharing their success stories. And I hope you too, will soon come bragging to me about your transformation.

You can reach out to me here: