Are you our next Top-Dating-Coach?

Become a dating coach


I’m Arnoud the founder of AttractionGym. And I’m Daan. the most famous Dutch dating coach. When we started AttractionGym, 11 years ago we had no idea what our lives as a fulltime dating coaches would look like.

Now we know. It’s been a long journey to get here, but we honestly say there is nothing else we’d rather be doing than this. You might think that is because the life of ‘the best know Dutch dating coach’ is all about gorgeous women and a streak of never ending parties.

Nope dear friend, none of that (expect the women part, that’s correct). What our lives are about is helping a many guys as possible.

We’ve probably have seen more lives transform in meaningful and often times dramatic ways, than most ‘life-‘ or whatever coaches out there. Cause this problem these guys are having is real, and how we can help our guys is powerful.

What we offer them, coaching and mentoring, ‘exposure therapy’ and dating strategies to help guys get more in tune with their authentic selves, is one of the most powerful gifts a man can receive.

Since we want to reach as many guys as possible we’ve built an entire team of coaches in different countries. It’s also the reason we love to grow our business, build systems and perfect everything.

And because of that we have one question:

Will you be our next top dating coach?

Let’s me describe the job and lifestyle we can offer you.

  • It will be your jobto have adventures with women
  • We will teach you everything you need to know to excel at this
  • You’ll travel to some of the best party cities to teach bootcamps (think: Barcelona, Budapest, Amsterdam, Berlin, Brussels, etc.)
  • You’ll be part of a tribe of men that are fanatic about reaching their full potential, with women and in life in general
  • You will be in front of the camera – a lot
  • We will coach you to shoot educational and fun videos to inspire our audience
  • We will mentor you to become a recognized authority, on giving authentic dating advice
  • You’ll have the freedom of a digital nomad – work and live where you like, eventually
  • The potential to earn more than most people you know, based on your performance
  • However it won’t all be glamour and smiling faces – what we offer you is very much an entrepreneurial hard working lifestyle
  • And to be clear: this is a –fulltime- position. In the beginning (when phasing in for example) it might not be, but eventually it definitely will be.

A quick intro about us.

Eleven years ago we started offering coaching programs. Now we have teams based in Amsterdam (NL, headquarters), Ghent (BE) and Berlin (DE).

What defines us is that we want to help guys achieve more fulfilling dating, love and sex lives. We do this teaching them authentic dating strategies. Some of the other companies and coaches/writers that have inspired us in the past are: Mark Manson, Simple Pickup and RSD. But without the old-school creepy pick-up lingo.

We grew to become the market leader in the Netherlands and Belgium. It is our vision to build the same position in Germany. As we speak we are also expanding into the English speaking countries and possibly other languages as well.

Check out some of Daan’s videos.

Is this you?

For the right person this is the opportunity of a lifetime!

To be clear, we don’t expect you to be a celebrity coach already ;). We’re looking for talent that we can develop, as we’ve done many times before (we’ve trained dozens and dozens of coaches, in different countries and different markets).

Our selection process is very no nonsense and a very gradual, step by step one. We like to take our time to get to know you – and vice versa.

One of the first questions I ask every potential candidate is: where do you see yourself in 5 years? The reason for this is that I’d like to see everyone to pursue their true passion in life. If our vision is aligned? Awesome. Not aligned? Still awesome, but let’s not cooperate J.

Our training program will be tailored to you, very structured, very thorough and at times intense. You will be spending a lot of time in Amsterdam so that you get to know the team and we can give you all the necessary training and mentoring.

To get an impression of our style and philosophy of coaching, please have a look at our YouTube channel and website:

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› AttractionGymTV (Youtube)

To summarize, these are the qualities we are looking for.

  • You have a passion to help other men with their dating lives. You most likely have gone through a transformation in your ‘game’/flirting skills yourself
  • You love to communicate and express yourself. You love the idea to become a Youtube star.
  • You are coachable. Smart. A doer. Reliable through and through. You are the most driven person you know.
  • You have an entrepreneurial mindset. You are or within a number of months be available fulltime. You like to travel and to live in Amsterdam for a certain period of time.

If you feel you this is you, then fill out the survey:


If you don’t feel this is for you, but you know someone who might be interested, feel free to share.

I am looking forward to hearing from you!

All the best,

Arnoud van Veen
Founder AttractionGym