Online Dating for Marriage Minded Men – 3 Things You Have to Know

Probably:

• You’ve been single for years, pining after finally finding a woman who’s THE perfect match for you…’I need a wife. I want a wife. I need to find my wife!’, are maybe the thoughts inside your head.
• You’ve had dozens of Tinder dates, under which not a single lady kindled a ‘wow’ inside you, so you’re beginning to doubt whether online dating is even a clever thing to do
• Not so long ago you were in a relationship or even married – but with none of these women happiness lasted forever; you are back at ground zero and wonder if a man like you still has a chance to find his great love online

Bro.

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• 3 Steps how to use online dating for marriage
• How to use exactly Tinder to find your Mrs. Right: Yes, this app isn’t just only hookup
• How to setup your online profile so your chances for online marriage increase
• The best dating apps for marriage
• More about using online dating to marriage…

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I’m dating for marriage: Does online dating even make sense?

I don’t know you, but there is one thing I know meticulously (and I don’t have to be Sherlock Holmes for that).

If you’ve clicked on this formidable article, chances are that you are currently looking for HER.

Your Bonnie.

You want to benefit from the glorious technologies of the 21st century and try your luck online.

But whether this is really a smart idea and whether you can find your soul mate via Tinder, OkCupid, Badoo & Co. apart from one-night stands, affairs and friendships with benefits, you’ll find out today.

Unfiltered. Realistic. And to the point.

Yeah, even though the truth can be damn ugly.

And with that, let’s jump right in.

In the ‘pickup scene’ there are some hardliners who swear that you are only a true man if you approach women exclusively in real life.

Ironically, it’s not uncommon that those men, who diabolize online dating, remain single for long periods of time.

Am I saying that there’s a correlation between being single and not using online dating platforms?

No. Not really.

What I am convinced of, however, is that by not using Tinder & Co. you are missing an effective way to meet fantastic women effortlessly.

Listen.

If you’re a guy who often feels overwhelmed or inhibited in social interactions – maybe even tells himself that he could never be extroverted and approach women on the street or in the club, then…

… learn – by all costs – first, how you approach with beauties in the ‘physical’ world.

There are thousands of reasons – why this is a brilliant decision regardless of your age.

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Partly because it makes you…

• Get in touch with your instinctive masculinity (after all you must work up a lot of cojones)
• Your self-confidence grows immeasurably through your melting social fears, self-doubts and inhibitions
• Become independent because you realize how much control you can have over your love life
• Women that you like and with whom you have an excellent conversation on the spot for a coffee or a drink
• (I could continue the list until tomorrow…)

But why can online dating still be worthwhile for you and why do I even think you are a fool if you give it up?

Easy:

Firstly, because you will see countless women on the apps that you might never meet in your entire life (especially if you live in a big city).

Secondly, because you can filter hundreds of women simultaneously through a polarizing profile, WITHOUT having to approach and filter out each one of them individually.

So, that to a large extent only women who surf on the same wavelength and value similar values to you will mark you with a ‘like’.

The reputation that online dating apps à la Tinder are only suitable for one-night stands, affairs and for friendships with benefits is nothing but outdated.

Moreover, the probability of finding your future spouse through it is constantly growing – according to SCIENCE.

For example, the New York Times wedding advertisements show a significant increase in the number of partnerships that have met through Tinder.

A study by SimpleTexting showed that 15% of all couples who meet online date for longer than a year. 13.6% of them get engaged or even married.

In addition, 38% of all men and 44 (fabulous) % of all women are looking for long-term relationships on dating apps.

It no longer seems to be a social taboo to meet your great love on the World Wide Web.

Fewer and fewer couples seem ashamed of it.

With hashtags like #TinderWedding on Instagram, for example, countless newlyweds are paying tribute to the popular dating app as ‘the place where it all began’.

The #TinderWedding pictures literally screams: ‘We don’t give a damn what you think about us! We met through Tinder – judge us, but then don’t complain about why you’re still unhappy singles.’

In another study by the PNAS (Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences) it found that as many as 30% of all weddings in the USA are created through dating apps.

Facts that honestly don’t surprise me.

I have now met countless men and women who have met through online dating and are firmly convinced that they are currently in the most fulfilling relationship of their lives.

The argument that apps like Tinder are only used for fleeting adventures is losing ground.

So, yes… using online dating for marriage is a way to go!

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Why use marriage minded dating sites / apps?

It’s anything but impossible to find your Mrs. Right in the online world.

Provided, of course, that you implement the following tips from this article. 😉

Into the naked visage of the dating apps you must look, young Padawan!

In order to become a true online dating demigod, you must first find out exactly what you are dealing with.

What are the advantages of this whole online dating thing? What fruits do you miss out on? And why is it even good that you miss them?

It’s time to clarify all these myth-enshrouded questions.

Let’s go.

One of the biggest advantages of online dating is – as you can probably already guess

…the quantity.

Via apps like Bumble, Badoo & Co. you can meet significantly more women in less time than through your circle of friends or by simply talking to them on the street, in bars or in the club.

A larger number means greater chances of success.

It’s comparable to a lottery at a funfair.

If you want to win the fat ‘I love you’ teddy bear (which is undoubtedly an extremely masculine intention anyway), you have two ways to play your cards.

Option A: You buy a handful of tickets and hope that among them is the mega profit…

OR

Option B: You buy a whole bag of tickets and increase your chances of winning the glorious prize many times over.

This malaka plays it extra safe…

Sure, you could be lucky with option A and make the mega profit with little ‘investment’.

But if you really want it, it’s almost idiotic to put all your hopes on 3 meager lots.

And the same goes for your search for the one.

Because your ‘real world’ can be a small pond compared to the dating app.

Maybe you live in a small village where everyone knows each other. Maybe in a small town. Maybe the weather is lousy, so there are only a few women on the streets; maybe you’re tired of meeting women in clubs or bars.

In the online dating universe, all that couldn’t matter less.

After all, it doesn’t matter how the weather is like – you can always be on the go on your mobile phone (or laptop).

In addition, online dating platforms usually include filters that allow you to adjust the radius so that you see primarily women in your area.

So, without having to travel anywhere, you can simply increase your radius to see the beauties of your next town.

Excellent point, amigo.

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The #1 thing you must understand when looking for marriage online

To increase chances that mostly women ‘like’ you, who REALLY fit to you, you need to make your profile your wingman.

I’ll show you how you can do that, but before I do – I’m going to reveal all the FUNDAMENTAL pros and cons of online dating, so you know exactly what you’re getting yourself into.

Advantages:

• You can easily meet women at any time (yes, even if you’re sitting on the toilet at 03:00 PM)
• Due to the high number of users, chances are high, that you’ll find an outstanding partner in crime among them
• By being able to write and perform with many women at the same time, you not only sharpen your social skills, but also find out what kind of woman you prefer and find rather unattractive → so you get to know yourself better at the same time – win-win

Cons:

• You may have to go on hundreds of dates until you find HER
• You’ll most likely lose your motivation to find Mrs. Right via online dating if the spark doesn’t ‘fly’ on most dates
• The women you meet online can be completely different in reality (people often look different in text and profile pictures than they do in real life – after all, most of them want to show themselves from their most attractive side [for which you can’t blame them for])

This may sound like a lot of disadvantages, hard work and like an endlessly long way.

It’s almost as if it’s a pure numbers game that you must throw yourself in – a lottery with dozens of variables that must fit perfectly to make it as a millionaire.

Fortunately there’s a shortcut with which you can increase your chances tremendously – a shortcut, I’m going to share with you – as impressively generous as I am.

As I already told you, a strong profile is not only the key to MORE ‘likes’, but also to MORE women who actually fit to you.

So that you mainly match women who meet your most important criteria.

Yes, it also means that you are spared countless horrible rendezvous in which you both dislike each other.

In which amazingly simple steps you can do this, I’ll show you now.

So, open your eyes wide…

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My 3-step-guide for an Olympic online dating experience

I got some bad news for you, bro.

With high probability your photos already scare away your future wife without you knowing it.

But don’t panic. You have your favorite dating coach by your side. <3

So, you are looking for a long-term relationship – mainly for a mademoiselle worthy of marriage.

So, the last thing you want is to give the impression that you are just pining for sexual adventures.

Right?

Cool.

But how the hell can you embody your intention via your profile?

I’ll tell you in three simple steps.

Let’s start with…

Step #1: The photo selection

Your main profile picture is the very first thing women see when they ‘click’ your profile.

Within a few milliseconds, they will get an impression of you that will decide whether she gives you a chance or wipes you straight to the left (and mark you with a ‘I’m not interested’).

Is the best main profile picture the one that gets you the most likes?

No. Surprisingly not.

After all, you only want to attract women who have the same intentions as you.

Therefore, it’s more important to avoid pictures that make you look like a one-night-stand enthusiast and replace them through pictures which give off a ‘husband material’-vibe.

So, you want to create a trustworthy – but still masculine impression.

But with the help of which images should you succeed in this?

Well, with these:

1. Pictures with pets: A photo with a doggo signalizes that you can take care of it and take responsibility – which for women are sexy father qualities. (Puppies or other baby animals give you extra points! Because, logically you must be much more sensitive to them. Otherwise, they won’t survive very long…)
   

2. Pictures with nieces or nephews, where they seem to have fun with you: Herewith you can score crystal clear with father qualities. A smiling child at your side is especially attractive to women – who are looking for a potential Mr. Right. You give them a glimpse, so to speak, of how fantastic you would be in a father role for your potential children together.
3. Snapshots of you and a ‘calmer’ hobby: Pictures of you meditating, cooking or doing a nature sport also create a lot of trustworthiness. Why? Because you seem to have a ‘balanced temper’ and the risk that you are a quick-tempered choleric person is much lower… 😉
4. Pictures of you pursuing your biggest passions: Whether you’re a music freak and a passionate harp player, a martial arts fanatic or a party person, add some snapshots of yourself to your online dating profile so women can see what you’re passionate about. In the worst case you filter out women who are not at all interested in your hobbies and with whom you probably wouldn’t have ‘clicked with anyway…

Step #2: The profile text

Bueno photos? Check!

Next, we come to an underrated secret weapon…

… your profile description.

It’s the magical place where you can share your personality unfiltered with the online dating world.

Does EVERY woman without any exception look at your profile text? No.

Nevertheless, can it convince her if she’s still unsure about you after looking through your pictures? F*ck yeah.

So, if you want to know not only which bio you get MORE matches with, but also MORE high-quality matches with women who are a great fit for you, check out this article.

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Step #3: Transform your phone into a date machine

If you have put steps #1 and #2 into practice, your profile should be dripping with husband material by now.

And you can’t save yourself from interested chica bonitas.

So now it is time to take the scepter of responsibility into your hands and proactively engage with them.

In plain language: Send your chosen one original messages and inspire them to go on a date. At least it’s a chance for you to get to know her better.

Spoilers:

First messages like…

…you should forget…

After all, not only these messages are all pathetic, ordinary and inauthentic (come on, are you seriously interested in how a stranger feels? I doubt it). And they are used by 90% of men anyway (so you stand out to 0.000%).

They offer your potential dream woman anything but a lot of leeway to respond to it.

This doesn’t mean that you have to be more creative than Picasso, you just have to give your messages a more original twist.

Want some inspiration?

Then try this message:

This message is great for three reasons:

• It sub communicates that you have a good sense of humor, which is generally an extremely attractive quality
• You inspire her to answer, after all it is clear what she must do
• From her answer you already get a feeling for her

Three for the price of one. Win, win, win!

The beauty of the ‘Choose wisely’ format is that you can easily adapt it to your humor and interests.

Just ask yourself what is important to you about your next partner – whether it is politics, hobbies, animals, work, family or religion, what you want to know more about her.

From her answer, you can seamlessly move on to the topic and start a memorable conversation with her about it.

Once the conversation ball starts rolling, keep it moving.

And when you see the chance, take her on the first date.

Marriage minded dating: The best online dating site for marriage

After reading this tip, you will know which dating app is best to find your perfect match.

I can imagine the ordeal you can go through while searching for the right app.

You want to find your great love, but you have a challenge with one of our most valuable resources on our planet:

Time.

You only have a limited number of hours per day.

If you are employed, you spend at least 8 hours a day on your job.

You also need time for shopping, cleaning and of course to watch cute guinea pig videos on YouTube.

So, use every minute you have to find your flame for life wisely.

But the number of different dating apps is g i g a n t I c by now.

Tinder, Badoo, Bumble, Happn, PlentyofFish, Match.com, OkCupid, Inner Circle, Hinge and whatever they’re called…

So, which of them should you choose?

The short answer:

It depends.

Every nation has a dating app that is most widely used within its borders.

In America, according to dozens of surveys, Tinder is the undisputed king of the online dating market.

(Which is probably largely because membership is free).

However, obviously, what is most popular does not have to be the smartest decision.

Dating sites such as Match.com, OkCupid or Coffee Meets Bagel have more mature users using their services.

Yes, on the most of more ‘serious’ sites you have to pay a fixed monthly fee in most cases, but this is more of a plus. Because those who are willing to invest money in l’amour tend to take the app more seriously and are more willing to meet.

A study by the Pew Research Center shows that a third of the people on Tinder have never been on a date with one of their matches. So more than 30% seem to prefer mere chatting.

In addition, dating sites à la Match.com and Coffee Meets Bagel, unlike Tinder and Bumble, don’t allow membership until you answer their personal questions, which they can use to show you more like-minded women at the same time.

Does that mean you should leave free apps to the side?

No.

In fact, I suggest you experiment like a Masafaka.

Have fu-

Wait.

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And when everything works out, and you find yourself a wife online, don’t forget to invite yours truly.

Your bro,
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