3 Expert Bumble Tips for 3 Dates Per Week (+ Profile Examples)

Dan de Ram

17 Oct 2020 by Dan de Ram

Bumble.

An app full of wondrously beautiful women.

A dating platform with high quality profiles.

The only twist in the deal?

The women you match have to text YOU first.

You’ve NO chance to make the first step… Because that would mean equality, which would be a completely idiotic approach, wouldn’t it? 😉

But all jokes aside: In itself, the basic idea of the app developers is still interesting – after all, it seems like they want to inspire women to fight for you.

If there wasn’t another catch…

Your matches have only 24 hours to hit you up.

And if you’re not in the mood to extend the time window of your matches (which by the way is only possible to avoid payment) …

…your match is gone once and for all after the 24 hours.

Awesome.

And if that’s not awesome enough…

Let’s take another look at how many matches a spicy señorita gets every day.

Her screen looks something like this:

One Bumble notification after the other…

So, it’s no wonder if she doesn’t go after every guy and only chooses a few to chat with.

But because here at AttractionGym, we don’t tolerate whining about “aggravated chances”, we’ll focus on how you can stand out MASSIVELY from the gray profile mass of all men.

So that you inspire women to want to meet you.

You will get:

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How to use the Bumble app properly: 3 must-have tips

Tip #1: How to inspire Bumble girls (your matches) to seduce you

If you occasionally have no idea what to text a woman, this tip is for you.

Just as hard as it might be for you to write “the perfect opener” to a match on Tinder…

… for some women on Bumble, it can be as hard to find something to hit you up with.

While some women put a lot of effort into their first Bumble messages, there are some that seem rather unoriginal…

…and it seems as if they’re not even trying.

A fact that’s a bit unfortunate…

When I dated a chica bonita via Bumble during one of our summer bootcamps in Barcelona, she told me that the app even tries to stop women from sending boring first Bumble messages.

The developers of the app seem to know themselves that the chance for interesting conversations is drastically reduced when the first text is already deadly boring.

That’s why they’ve added a hint to the app… Women get an alternative suggestion on what to text their matches if they just write short messages like “Hi” or “Hey”.

I was stunned when I first heard about it.

This means that every time a woman sends you a “Hi” or “Hey”… she has consciously ignored the well-meant hint of the app developers.

Bumble:

“Hey, your message is statistically inefficient and boring. You want me to show you how to get a man’s interest more originally?”

Some women on Bumble:

“No, thanks. I’m too lazy for that. I’m trying to get the guy to make it more interesting. I don’t really want to have to make an effort. ;-** ”

But don’t worry, bro.

There’s actually a way you can inspire both lazy and shy women (yes, some women are simply too nervous or overwhelmed…) to text you.

All you have to do is open your profile and add a profile text that contains the following…

… a C T A.

A call-to-action.

Here you give women a playful helping hand as to HOW they can text you.

The more originally you formulate it, the more you inspire them to hit you up.

Here are two examples:

Example #1:

Here, you playfully invite your match to play Sherlock and find out the lie.

Example #2:

With this bio, you even give her the chance to choose between two topics to which she can give you an answer.

And even though there’s a good chance there’ll still be women who’ll introduce with a brittle “hey” every now and then…

…there’ll be more and more ladies who’ll respond to your bio.

By the way, if you want to have more powerful profile texts that you can shamelessly copy and inspire women to swipe you right, then check out this article I have written for you:

>> 3 Ways to Make an Irresistible Online Dating Profile Text (+ 5 Examples)

Thank me later.

Tip #2: The most fatal Bumble sin you can commit (failure guarantee)

Now open your eyes wide and sit up straight, amigo.

I’m going to show you the most fatal mistake you can make on Bumble when it comes to creating a solid profile (followed by some tips to make sure you NEVER make it).

Here it is…

Most guys don’t exactly have the perfect dating profile picture at hand.

Because if they had to have one shot, that would mean that they would have to team up with a photographer.

And while some are just too lazy for that, others feel too uncomfortable to have their pictures taken.

So, what do they do?

They dig around in their photo gallery, which contains ancient pictures.

Among them, they choose their personal favorites (why this is not a good idea in itself, I’ll tell you in a bit) …

…and smash them into their bumble profile.

But here’s what they don’t know:

Caps, baseball caps or sunglasses have NOTHING to do with an excellent main profile photo. Your face should be clearly recognizable together with your eyes.

In the best case, no more than your head and torso are visible.

And while you’re looking in the lens, have a GENUINE smile on your lips so you can signal to your potential matches that you’re actually a trustworthy man and not a creepy serial killer.

Anyway… maybe you weren’t aware of all this – but Bumble is.

So, to accommodate you, the app has a system behind it that scans your main profile picture.

It picks out your face and zooms in.

So, when a woman swipes you, she sees only a part of your original image.

And that can be fatal for you.

Let me give you an example of what I mean by that:

Now let’s go back to my photo tips…

What’s so bad about this guy’s profile?

His face is clearly visible on it.

The picture frame contains his head and torso… not in an optimal way, but I’ll let it pass.

He’s not wearing sunglasses or a hat.

And even though you can’t tell because of my smooth censorship, he’s smiling in the photo.

Is this a first-class image quality? Definitely not.

It’s pixelated and was apparently taken fleetingly on a night out.

However, there’s one more thing that’s absolutely FATAL about this photo…

You want to know what it is?

For this, we have to tap on the image so that we can view the whole photo:

Ah… we see our malaka has other friends.

Nice, isn’t it?

At least he doesn’t seem like a lonely dog…

And apart from the quality, the picture seems to be relatively good…

Well, if that’s the way you feel, I must disappoint you.

Because this guy doesn’t even know he’s on Bumble.

Why?

Because this is a profile picture of a woman.

Yeah, you heard me right.

This profile belongs to the blonde-haired cutie right next to our amigo.

She chose this picture from her hodgepodge of “halfway solid pictures” off her smartphone.

And, without cropping it.

So, Bumble automatically cropped it for them by letting the app select the most present face, zoom in on it and center it.

Boy, oh boy… they went down the toilet with it.

I’ll bet this poor beauty wonders why she can’t get any matches…

Not realizing that most people only swipe her left because they think… she’s a muscular dude.

Instead, choose a main profile picture that’s in the foreground and where you’re clearly visible.

By the way, if you’re looking for more golden tips on how to create high quality profile pictures, check out this article I’ve written for you:

>> No Matches On Tinder? 13 Reasons Why (+ How to Fix)

After this, it should be clear to you how you can easily stand out from other profiles with the help of badass pictures.

Tip #3: THIS is why you don’t get dozens of dates despite a strong profile

Even though I don’t know you, my dear bro, I dare to say that I know exactly what is wrong with your online dating skills.

I believe that I can foresee how you usually behave on Tinder, Bumble, Badoo & Co.

And if I’m correct in my assessment, you’ve a problem…

It’s not like you’re doing anything insanely wrong.

Most of the time, you probably act completely normally towards your matches.

Like an ordinary man.

Not like a crazy creep.

Your messages aren’t extremely bad… but also not amazing…

You seem like a normal guy.

Nod if you agree with me.

Cool.

Well, let me tell you what the reason is that women are usually not eager to meet you and don’t ask you out.

It’s not like you’re an unattractive guy.

In fact, you seem to be approachable on Bumble…

… way TOO ORDINARY.

Like the nice neighbor who lives around the corner.

An inconspicuous guy who doesn’t want to attract attention or polarize.

After all, the “right woman” will one day recognize your true value as long as you remain polite and don’t scare her off.

Right?

Bro.

If you really believe that, you’re naiver than I thought.

And don’t get me wrong, I was also convinced of this misconception a few years ago. At the time, I was convinced that I had to rein myself in…

But one day, I discovered that women respected, loved and appreciated me much more when I let my nerdy edges shamelessly shine through and was no longer ashamed of my “geeky” passions and hobbies.

Women have had it up to here with men behaving like dogs:

You’ve read “Hey”, “Hi”, “How are you?” enough times by now.

They don’t want to read any more run-off-the-mill profile texts in which you say that you like to meet friends, occasionally have a beer and go to the cinema now and then.

They would rather uninstall the app than only have matches with ordinary guys.

And yes, I know that this may sound a bit harsh, but the truth is that the only one to blame for your failure in online dating is…

… YOU.

But before you start criticizing yourself to death:

It may sound crazy, but you already have everything IN YOU to become successful in seducing women.

How to get your attractive character to show

You just haven’t been taught how to show your unfiltered side attractively…

Until today.

With today’s Bumble tips you’ll get a long way.

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I’ll see you on the other side.

Your bro,
Dan de Ram

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