If you’re like me back in the day, chances are you’re not getting any women.
I know how frustrating this can be.
You see beautiful girls every single day, but you never get to meet any.
It’s about time you take action to start dating more girls, don’t you think?
In this article, we cover everything you need to know about our AttractionGym Dating Workshops.
- A secret that makes every man way more attractive
- How Lauren Verster persuaded me to pursue my career
- What exactly you learn in an AttractionGym dating Bootcamp
- VIDEO: How a 30 years old nerd takes a girl home in broad daylight
- 12 Signs indicating whether you’re ready for a dating workshop
- How much age and looks matter when flirting
- The perfect time to take a flirting Bootcamp
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Let’s get started!
A dating Bootcamp with Lauren Verster
The other day I was called by Lauren Verster.
My answer: No.
Our students wouldn’t like that. They want to learn how to flirt with girls, not become TV celebrities.
Apparently, I was wrong because I found two guys who were willing to be coached on TV.
Anyway, Lauren Verster followed us for an entire day, asking questions and filming the workshop.
In the video, you can see me coaching two students that achieve great results meeting girls.
First things first…
If you’re considering taking a flirting course, you should ask yourself this very important question first:
Should you take a Dating workshop?
The thing is, dating courses aren’t for everyone.
At AttractionGym, we sometimes have to refuse people that want to do our workshops.
Last month, for example, a guy told me:
No, you shouldn’t.
Why? Because a flirting workshop isn’t the right place to start working on your psychological traumas.
It’s a place to take action and grab life by the balls.
If talking to girls gives you panic attacks, it’s better to start therapy first.
So how do you know if you should take our dating workshop?
If at least 3 of these things apply to you:
- You always let beautiful girls walk by you without doing anything
- You often think “What should I say?“ when talking to women
- You always fall into boring conversations with girls
- You want to go for the amazingly beautiful women
- You often end up in the friendzone
- You have no idea how to approach a woman
- You often end up with girls you don’t really like
- You never get any Tinder matches
- You’d like to be able to speak to your dream woman during the day as well
- You know you have the potential to be successful with girls, but you’re not
- You want to master conversations and become charismatic
- You want to get back in the game after breakup
During our Bootcamps, you get practical tools to overcome each one of these problems.
Dating workshop: How an IT guy took a girl home in broad daylight
Let me tell you the story of Matthijs, an introvert nerd who participated in one of our Summer Dating Bootcamps.
Our dating workshops are always divided into two parts:
Daygame – Approaching girls during the day, usually on the street
Nightgame – Approaching girls in bars and nightclubs
It’s Tuesday afternoon. I start a Daygame session with Matthijs. He tells me:
He even tells me he’d like to cancel the coaching session to get some sleep at home.
Here’s what I answer:
The thing is, Matthijs thinks he doesn’t have it in him. But as a dating coach, I know that’s not true.
It’s my job to show him how he can awaken that inner power at any time.
Poof. He’s gone.
He starts talking to that gorgeous girl, she accepts to drink a coffee with him. Then they get some food.
Final destination? Home.
A few months later Matthijs met his current girlfriend in the Netherlands (also during the day.)
That’s the first thing you’ll learn in our Dating Workshops: Everything is possible.
Perhaps you’re an introvert and you’re shy, or you know how to make friends but you don’t know how to flirt with girls.
Regardless of what kind of person you are, flirting is a skill you can learn.
And once you know how to hit on girls, this skill stays with you forever.
Then say hello to great dating life.
Online or Offline?
Sometimes I get this question:
That’s a good question.
The best option is to take FLOW then go for a real-life dating Bootcamp.
Why? Well, here’s what you need to know about FLOW course:
- You get 150€ to 250€ discount on our real-life Bootcamp
- It teaches you all the theory about flirting, but it goes even deeper because of the 100+ hidden camera examples
- You get free lifelong access to our LIVE events, webinars, and our community that makes sure you keep taking action in the real world
- It teaches you a step-by-step approach on how to flirt with girls so you can start using the theory in real life
In short: If you want to make the most of our Bootcamps, FLOW course is the best place to start.
Need more info?
AttractionGym on TV… again!
Yeah, we’re famous.
The other day, two guys from Weekend Crashers asked if we could help them get a date for Valentine’s Day.
They wanted to take a one-day flirting workshop.
The thing is, if you want to get better at flirting with girls, one day is usually not enough. That’s why our workshops go from two days to six months.
But we couldn’t resist Lou and Jasper’s enthusiasm, so we decided to give it a go and do a filmed one-day dating workshop.
A dating workshop makes flirting easy
As discussed earlier, our dating Bootcamps aren’t for everyone.
But most guys can achieve great results in a short amount of time.
(Dating 2 or 3 women every week is more than achievable.)
With that in mind, perhaps you’re asking yourself:
It’s common for men to think that looks, money, or age are the most important aspects of flirting.
Of course, those things matter, but not as much as you’d think.
The truth is, there are many traits women find extremely attractive in men.
Check out this article and see by yourself what’s even more powerful than looks and money:
Becoming attractive requires working on yourself
Let me tell you the story of one of our dating coach, Rob.
Rob started as a student in one of our seduction workshop in Amsterdam.
At the time, he was still a virgin.
I liked him from the beginning because of how enthusiastic he was about taking this course. He was really eager to learn.
The first day of the workshop, Rob followed my instructions and approached some girls in the street.
After a couple of rejections, he met this cute American girl and got her number.
The same night, they went on a date and ended up in her hostel.
Now, I’m not going to draw you a picture, but let’s just say Rob wasn’t a virgin anymore.
There are a few reasons Rob was successful right from the beginning:
- He followed his coach’s instructions
- He kept trying even after being rejected
But the main reason – and what made me so proud of him – is Rob’s mentality.
When I saw him and congratulated him the next day, he asked within 2 minutes:
This is a winner’s mentality.
And that’s what you need to start getting more women.
Now, Rob has become a dating coach. If you participate in our flirting workshop, you’ll get to meet him and imitate his learning process.
Why everyone needs coaching
I’ve been a dating coach for many years now, but it doesn’t mean I don’t need coaching anymore.
For example, last month, I flew to America to participate in an entrepreneur workshop.
I’m an expert in the dating field, but I have many other goals I want to achieve. I want to get better in the field of nutrition, fitness, tantra, happiness…
If you don’t have any goals, chances are you’re not making the most of your life.
If you want to start improving your life right from today, here’s an article about it:
Workshops are the best way to take action and pursue your dreams.
Because they teach you in two days what you normally learn in years (if you ever learn it at all!)
And the sooner you learn something, the sooner you can enjoy it.
Even very successful people recommend getting coaching.
Have you ever read Tai Lopez’s book ’67 Steps to Success’? Step 4 of this course is ‘Find a Mentor.’
Sure, those workshops cost money. But do you know how much money people are spending on alcohol each week? (Research shows that it’s a lot!)
And in the end, the amount of unnecessary pain, effort and time you save by going to a workshop is huge.
When it comes to dating, the only difference between you and me is the knowledge we have. If we’d exchange brains right now, you’d be making out with four girls at the same time (Ok, I might be exaggerating a bit.)
What I’m saying is, once you acquire the knowledge and put it in practice in a workshop, the sky is the limit.
How a dating workshop helps you in every other aspect of your life
Think of your flirting skills as a muscle.
The more you exercise it, the better you get with women.
If you have no success with girls whatsoever, it’s because your muscle is weak and it needs to work out.
But just like some people rely on a sports coach to start taking sport more seriously, a lot of guys take dating workshops to start dating more women.
One thing you should know is that what you’re doing wrong with girls is related to other aspects of your life.
Meaning when you do a dating workshop, flirting is not the only skill you acquire.
For example, our students often mention how they have improved their public speaking skills at work (this topic isn’t covered at all in our dating workshop.)
This is because we teach you not only how to come across as self-confident, but how to actually be confident.
And research has shown that self-confidence is one of the most influential motivators of behavior in people’s everyday lives.
So once you acquire self-confidence, you can use it at work, in your study, in social situations, and so on.
Fun fact: A former AG student even told us he has dramatically improved his running performance after taking the workshop.
If you lack self-confidence, no worries: I’ve been there.
Here’s my experience and how exactly I became more confident around girls:
How you can save money by doing a dating Bootcamp
Back in the days, I used to rely on alcohol to loosen up and have the balls to talk to girls.
The irony is that I always ended up super drunk… and alone.
I’d wake up the next day, hangover as f*ck, log-in my bank account app, and then…
-6$, -6$, -6$, -8$, -6$, -6$, -10$, -10$, -10$, -10$, etc…
Without even noticing, I had spent more than $80 in one night. On alcohol only.
You do this two or three times a month, and we’re talking 2-3K a year.
Anyway, one day I participated in a flirting workshop, got way better with girls as a result… and realized I didn’t need alcohol anymore.
I don’t spend money on alcohol anymore.
(I drink one or two beers from time to time, but that’s all.)
So, sure, I would spent money on a workshop to be more successful with girls.
But this made me save way more money than I had spent initially.
You can become more handsome by taking flirting classes
I know, too good to be true, right?
Well, read on and see for yourself.
One of the most remarkable transformations I’ve ever seen as a coach was with Koen, a guy who did a summer one-week Bootcamp with us in Barcelona.
Koen wasn’t exactly good-looking (bald, very pale, big nose…)
Long story short: On his second day of Bootcamp, he kissed a girl. On his fourth day, he kissed two girls and took another one home. On his fifth day, he made out with a hot bartender and got her number. They went on a date the next day.
Now, that’s great, but here comes the best:
On his sixth day, while I was walking with him on the sunny streets of Barcelona, I noticed something new about him. I thought to myself:
He had gained so much confidence and charisma… that he had started to look better.
That’s the beauty of self-confidence. It makes you way more attractive.
Why? Because what’s on the inside radiates to the outside.
Remember: Everything is possible.
I once saw a 55 years old guys take a 32 years old cute girl home… in broad daylight.
Regardless of your looks or age, you can improve your game and start dating many girls.
You just have to grab your life by the balls and take action.
Arnoud founded AttractionGym in 2008.
So at the time of writing, AttractionGym is twelve years old.
(We run dozens of workshops a year. Do the math, that’s a lot of experience.)
Before running the first AttractionGym workshop, Arnoud himself traveled the world to get coached by everyone he thought he could learn from.
He’s been personally coached by:
- Neil Strauss (PUA Bootcamp in New York)
- Adam Lyons (AFCAdam)
- Julien from RSD (bootcamp)
- Cajun from Love Systems (one-on-one coaching)
- Authentic Man Program (Red Pill experience in America)
- David Deida (7 days Intensive in the US)
He gathered all the knowledge and experience that he had learned over the years, analyzed it, compared it, upgraded it, improved it and…
AttractionGym was born, providing the best seduction classes available in Europe.
Why we deliver high-quality coaching
There are so many options online that choosing a flirting workshop can be overwhelming.
The first question you want to ask yourself is: How much value do you get for your money?
For example, you might be tempted to take a dating course in an American company.
They started this whole dating thing, after all. And yes, their coaches fly all over the world, that’s pretty cool.
But paying 2000$ for a two-days course? For most people, that’s just too much.
Their workshops usually go for 2 days (7,5 hours per day). That’s 15 hours of coaching.
The thing is, their ratio coach-student usually is 1 to 3. So, technically you only get a third of those 15 hours: 5 hours of coaching. For 2000$.
That’s 400$ an hour. Yeah.
Now, if you have the money, why not going for it?
Well, those companies are known for teaching men manipulation tricks to come across as confident although they’re not.
Now, I’m not saying these tricks never work. You might actually hook up with many girls during their so-called Pickup Bootcamp.
But they won’t provide you with the tools to make it a habit and keep meeting girls after the workshop.
On the other hand, we at AttractionGym stay far away from anything pick up/manipulation related.
We teach authentic, bad-ass self-confidence.
We teach you how to become a real attractive guy. So what you learn stays with you forever.
Now, our AttractionGym workshops are also expansive (less than 1000€.)
But that’s the price to pay if you want to get high-quality coaching.
In our workshops, the ratio is 1 coach for 2 students.
We also have a “not good, money back” guarantee (which has never been used before.)
Take things to the next level
Great. Now you know everything about our dating workshops.
I know how hard it can be to decide whether you should do one or not.
Sleep on it. But if you want to start dating more girls soon, don’t sleep on it too much.
Because if you want to have a great dating life, why wait?
I know. This is why I created the perfect tool for you.
It’s called the Transformation Kit. And it’s free!
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- How to get out of the friendzone and be her lover
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- Step-by-step instructions for attracting women
- And much more…
You can find it all in my Transformation Kit.
Dan de Ram