These 5 Steps Are Your Best Shot At Getting Your Ex Back

how to get your ex girlfriend back

She’s gone.

And you’re alone again…

But you want your ex back.

You’ve come to the right place.

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Today you get:

  • The ultimate Ex Back System: How to get your ex back fast with one simple trick
  • The definite answer to the question “Does my ex want me back?”
  • The only way to make her regret leaving you
  • And much more…

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There are (only) two things I do not know:

I don’t know how much your ex meant to you. Maybe…

  • She was the love of your life
  • She was very special
  • She was the only woman who wanted to have sex with you more than once

I don’t know what happened. Maybe…

  • You left her, but now you regret it
  • You cheated on her, and she just won’t forgive you
  • She left you and you can’t forget her for the rest of your life

Whatever applies to you, I understand that your problem is serious.

Shall I confess something to you?

In a wicked way, I’m glad she’s not responding to your messages anymore. I’m even glad she doesn’t want anything to do with you anymore.

Yes, really.


You want to know why that is? Because I have the perfect solution for you. Yeah, you read that right. I know EXACTLY how you can get her back.

It gives me a boner that you can finally make use of my impeccable tips.

Because let’s be honest with each other: that’s what you’re looking for, isn’t it?

After all those friends who told you:

  • “There are many fish in the sea”
  • “You gotta get over her, maaaan!”
  • “Oh, just forget about her…”
  • “I’m sure you’ll find someone new”

You don’t have to keep searching, my friend. You’re at the right place at the right time. Together we can make her crazy about you again.

  • Simply
  • Effortlessly
  • 100% foolproof

If I tell you how to do it, you’ll think you’re stupid for not having thought of it yourself.

Do I have your attention?

Perfect, let’s begin your Ex-Back Program.

How to get your ex girlfriend back FAST

Watch out.

It’s super simple.

All you have to do to get your ex back is:

  1. Heat up 200 ml of organic milk (it must be organic, otherwise it won’t work!)
  2. Do not forget to add some grated ginger (organic is optional here)
  3. Recite the magic spell: “I hereby admit that I’m an idiot”
  4. Drink the ex-back-elixir in one go
  5. Keep an eye on your lap

That’s it.

If she doesn’t suddenly appear within two seconds to sit on your dick, you’ve done something wrong.

If it didn’t work, you should realize something important:

Ex Back Strategies are bullshit.

I could literally make a fortune by selling an online product about how to win your ex back.

Affected men are so desperate that they would do anything for it. They’d give their last shirt away just to spend one more day with their precious ex-girlfriend.

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I had to make a decision:

  • Do I want to own an expensive yacht, light up my Cuban cigars with 100 $ bills and snort cocaine from the tits of a Playmate?
  • Or do I ACTUALLY want to help these men?

I’m not ashamed to admit it: I thought about the expensive yacht for a second.

What do you expect from me? I’m only human.

But then I thought to myself: Fuck it, let’s rather make sure that you become a master of your current situation.

Before we do that, we need to understand what your real intentions are.

Tell me:

Why do you want your ex-girlfriend back?”

3 Deceptive reasons why you want your ex back

It hurts when a relationship crumbles into pieces.

So much, in fact, that a lot of men need a solution right away:

“Hmmm… I should win her back!“

True, it may indeed be that this is the best answer to your riddle. But be aware that you might just as well be lying to yourself.

Maybe there is one of these 3 deceptive reasons behind your seemingly noble attempt to win your ex-girlfriend back:

Reason #1: You’re bad with women

Relax, it wasn’t a personal attack.

It’s perfectly normal that, after a (long) relationship, your flirt skills are a bit sloppy.

Even I, the great dating coach Dan de Ram, had a few troubles right after my last relationship.

It’s not like I lost all my skills and had to rebuild them entirely. They were still there. I just had to blow off the dust.

I had to go out and polish them.

So before you sacrifice your left leg to win your ex back, keep in mind that after some practice you will be a damn sexy Maddafakka for other women as well.

Reason #2: You’re a rookie

Is it possible that you just want your ex back, because you’re inexperienced?

If that is the case, it is perfectly understandable that you think:

“Oh my God, Dan. I’ll never meet another woman this fabulous.”

But then I’ll tell you that you just never really looked around before.

Reason #3: You don’t want to be Average Andy

I don’t know how long you were with her, but a part of your identity is probably tied to her.

Apart from that, it is not easy for a freshly abandoned man to be alone. After the third porn, masturbation is no fun anymore…

Is it possible that you just want a girlfriend? Maybe you don’t care about her at all, you just don’t want to be home alone.

Question your intentions.

The ACTUAL way to get back with your ex woman

Now that you know your intentions, let me give you honest and healthy advice.

It’s tragic that it’s not your friends or parents who do it for you. But it doesn’t matter. That’s why you have me.

That being said:

I have no idea if it’ll work. Unfortunately, I can’t promise you that your ex will end up back in your arms. But what I can promise you is that you will know how to deal with the situation.

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You’ll rediscover your old strength again.

Shit, when I’m done with you, you’re gonna feel like a Greek god.

Whether your beloved will return to you or not, it will be quite indifferent to you. And that, my friend, is EXACTLY the reason why our strategy could work.

You must understand:

The steps to get over your ex = the steps to get your ex back

If you don’t believe me (which, by the way, is an impertinence), just imagine you’re the one who broke up and doesn’t want to know anything more about your ex.

When would you be more likely to find her attractive again?

  1. When she desperately tries to get you and annoys you daily with “Let’s try again” messages
  2. Or when she gets her life back under control and learns to love it again – without you

You’ll probably find her much more attractive when she lightheartedly dances through life again.

So you have to do the same.

Actually, don’t dance, that’d be a bit weird.

But you have to go out again, explore the world, experience adventures and collect epic stories.

Now I’m going to show you how to win a girl back, step by step.

Step #1: Stop whining

Stephen Hawking once said:

“People won’t have time for you if you are always angry or complaining.”

This is so true.

And it comes from a man who would have had every goddamn reason in the world to be whiny. No one would have said to him: “Stop whining!“

But no one would have looked up to him, either.

It’s not that I don’t feel for you when you whine.

I know your pain.

But I just know I can’t help you. Whiners don’t really want to be helped. They just want to down in their self-pity.

Admit it: in a fucked-up way, self-pity gives you comfort.

Comfort is good.  But comfort will not help you.

So step #1 is to realize that you are on the threshold of whining or have already crossed it.

And then you have to take the next step:

Step #2: Do what makes you feel strong

It’s okay to be sad and to feel weak.

But it’s not okay to not do something about it.

Use your pain as motivation to work hard on yourself.

Become a beast.

Tip: How I turned myself from a pessimist to a cheerful optimist is what you exactly need to know. Go through this article to get the power of thinking positively.

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Think about:

  • Sports
  • Meditation
  • Traveling
  • Reading
  • Acquiring new skills
  • Doing comfort zone challenges
  • Etc.

Afterward, you’ll feel like a new man. But this time stronger, more sharp-minded and emotionally free.

Step #3: Go nuts

Your heart was broken.

But that does not prevent you from having fu*king fun in life.

You’re free now. Enjoy your freedom, brochacho.

Meet up with friends, go to parties or festivals and finally do what you always wanted to do.

Do as you please. The world is yours. Anything is possible.

Step #4: Open your eyes

Love makes you blind.

That’s something even your grandmother knows. It is as true today as it was back then.

When we have a broken heart, we walk around with our eyes closed. We are only focused on ourselves. The world revolves around us, and everything is shit.

Well, it may suck.

But trust me:

It could be a lot shittier.

Come on. You’re a grown man… People go lose their homes, die of hunger, fall in war and so on.

Your ancestors survived the fucking ice age, chasing mammoths and killing saber-toothed tigers. And you’re telling me that you don’t know how to get over your ex?

Open your eyes and look around, damn it.

Every day there is one poor son of a b*tch who finds out he has been cheated on for months.

Realize how complex the universe is, how meaningless our existence is, and how infinite the opportunities for growth are.

Step #5: Go for a date marathon

It is recommended to meet other women.

Not only because it can be great and healing to spend time with the female sex. That too. But mostly because you might find out that you put your ex-girlfriend on a pedestal.

Maybe after a juicy date marathon, you will realize that you are even more attracted to another type of woman.

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The icing on your Ex-Girlfriend-Back Cake


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Those were my steps on how to get your ex back. Do what you want with them. Use them to get over your ex or to get her back.

I can’t tell you what outcome is better for you and your life. That’s for you to decide.

But what I can tell you is that if you care about your peace of mind, one of these outcomes should happen.

May you do well!

Your bro,
Dan de Ram

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