If you want to get women horny about the thought of making sweet love to you, you can’t just talk about the weather.
Your conversation should create a tremendous LUST FOR MORE in both of you.
The consequence of such a conversation is that you cannot resist, even if you tried.
In fact, the more you resist, the more the desire grows…
She constantly bites her lip, when you look into her eyes.
A pleasant goosebump triggering shiver flows through her body when you take her hand.
Your dick is getting harder and harder as you feel more and more desired by the woman you talk to.
THIS is TRUE sexual tension.
Unfortunately, very few people manage to feel it on a regular basis…
Instead, they try their best not to slip into the Friend Zone. If you want to effectively avoid this hellish place, sexual attraction is essential.
But how do you create this tension without coming across as a creepy pervert or an inauthentic fuckboy?
How do you make women horny naturally?
In this article you get:
- 7 Tips to make women horny
- The truth about female sexuality: Why your perception of women is wrong
- How to awaken the sex maniac inside her
- How to turn a woman on mentally
- The secret of sexually attractive men
- Become a sex god: Sex tips that revolutionize your love life
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How to Arouse a Woman
Back when I was as attractive to women as a pimple, I fell madly in love with a beautiful girl with an ugly name.
Let’s call her ‘Denise’ for privacy reasons. (That’s not her actual name, but it’s a lovely name at least…)
I thought:
I fought for her heart like a knight on a white horse.
She liked me enough to appreciate my effort, but not enough to ride my horse as well, if you know what I mean.
My naïve conclusion?
What happened next changed my perception of women forever.
At a buddy’s birthday party, to which Denise was invited as well, I finally summoned all my courage and took her aside.
She looked at me with big eyes, curious to hear what I had to say.
And then I did it… I Tedmosby-d the shyt out of her…
Her reaction could have been worse. Don’t get me wrong, it was disappointing as hell, but for this flirt sin I deserved to be rejected way harder.
She said that although she liked me, she’s just not interested in men right now, but she hopes we can be friends.
Naïve as I was, I believed her.
Let’s keep this story short.
She gave one of my buddies a blow job on a big trampoline in the garden that same evening.
How do I know that?
I wanted to reflect dramatically on my conversation with her in the garden and saw them doing it. She didn’t see me, of course. She was too busy…
As painful as it was, I am grateful for this experience. She helped me get rid of my wicked, wanna be knight ways of talking to women.
There are countless men who are firmly convinced that women don’t like sex as much as men. But trust me, that’s wrong.
And they have every reason to do so. After all, both men and women see them as “sluts”, when they show their sexuality openly.
Looking back, I didn’t even deserve Denise’s sexuality. I wouldn’t have labeled her a “bitch”, but I would have been disappointed in her, because it would have ruined my image of her.
“Slut-shaming” is not the only reason why women hide their sexuality.
Another reason is: fear of rejection.
It takes courage to show your sexual side openly. You can probably confirm that.
So if you want to turn women on, you gotta do three things:
- Recognize YOUR sexual nature
- Recognize HER sexual nature
- Help her let it out
Stay tuned, cause you are about to find out in the 7 tips how to make women horny…
Tip #1: The recognizing look
There is a special form of eye contact that makes women so horny that sometimes you don’t have to do anything but to look at them.
Everybody knows by now that eye contact is important when flirting, and yet the power of it is still underestimated.
Let me tell you a story.
I had a devil’s three-way with a buddy once.
Don’t worry, our swords never crossed at any time, and we only had occasional eye contact. It’s not gay, if it’s in a three-way, right?
Anyway…
We kissed her, grabbed her, caressed her, took her from behind, licked her etc.. We pretty much did everything you could imagine doing with a woman.
And she loved it.
The next day I asked her what was most exciting for her.
And, honestly, her answer shocked me:
This “romantic” story from my personal life underlines the importance of eye contact with a waterproof pen.
But how should you look at a woman?
Well, there are several looks that are attractive.
However, there is a look that makes a woman so hot that she could destroy Sauron’s ring with a simple touch and thus drive the darkness out of Middle-earth.
I call it the “recognizing look.”
Your mindset is:
The thought of you having a secret in common will help you with that look.
It’s a very intense look that signals to her:
It works as follows:
- Pinch the eyelids slightly together
- Put on a cheeky smile: You do that by lifting only one corner of your lips
- Have your head slightly twisted
Joey Tribbiani from “Friends” is a true master at it. He’ll show you what it looks like in practice:
Now that you have your seductive look down, it’s time for an unexpected way to make a girl horny. But believe me, it’s powerful.
Tip #2: Make yourself horny
This tip is so important that I would like to wrap it up in golden gift paper.
Many men are too focused on turning women on that they forget turning themselves on.
But that only looks like you’re trying to get her into bed. Besides, it makes you ignore your own sexuality.
Inspire her inner freak to come out by showing your own sexuality openly FIRST.
It is a nice feeling to act according to your authentic sexuality.
In general, you should do it for your own entertainment, not to achieve some kind of result.
It’s just a pleasant bonus that this behavior is highly attractive to women and sometimes makes them want to jump you.
If you’ve ever had sex, you know how hot it is, when a woman moans louder and louder, approaching orgasm more and more…
Same goes for women.
They love it, when you get turned on.
So don’t be ashamed of your boner, when you pull her close to you. Trust the fact that it is a massive turn on to be desired.
Attention:
Don’t be rapey! Obviously I am not saying you should go into the bathroom, touch yourself until you get hard and then press your hips against every girl you encounter.
This is meant to increase the sexual tension, WHEN IT IS ALREADY ON FIRE.
In that state both you and the girl emit pheromones like crazy.
Research has shown that pheromones have a strong effect on women’s sexuality.
All you have to do is connect with your sexuality and give the pheromones time to work for you.
This can be done by…
- Chilling! When you are nervous, it is harder to get the right pheromones out
- Looking deep into her eyes
- Smelling her (please not in a sex offender kind of way!)
- Connecting with your body and concentrating on the sensations you feel
- Consciously enjoying her company/attractiveness
The answer to the question:
Is…
Now that you’re warm and ready to go, let’s see how your arousal together with carefully chosen words can make women horny.
Tip #3: How to turn her on with words
At AttractionGym we make this a central point of our coaching sessions.
To make flirting more practical, I developed the TFC principle. It sounds super nerdy, but it turns flirting into something tangible.
TFC stands for:
- Teasing
- Fun
- Challenge
When what you say to a woman, falls under one of these categories, you are doing a lot of things right.
To help you with your flirt skills, I recommend you check out these 12 lines you can use to immediately spark attraction in your conversations.
They’re free. So use them!
Tip #4: How to turn a woman on mentally
This tip will sound like I am contradicting myself.
But once you have aroused her (sexual) interest through CORRECT flirting, it is a good idea to speak as little as possible.
You can only fuck up at this point.
- Opinions are not sexy.
- What you had for lunch is not sexy.
- What you think about fake boobs is not sexy.
Blablabla doesn’t increase a woman’s lust.
To look at her silently while she is speaking, to lead her wordlessly from one end of the club to the other, or to stand in front of her while taking her hands gently and looking deep into her eyes…
These are the things that make women horny.
Small talk should only be used to reduce tension. That is necessary when you have the feeling that it’s too much for her to handle, and she starts feeling uncomfortable.
Besides, let her do the talking. All you have to do is look into her eyes and listen…
… and to steer the conversation in the direction you’d like it to go.
Want more ways to make a girl horny? There’re 3 more powerful ways to do so.
Tip #5: The power of gentleness
I once spent a wellness weekend in the mountains with one of my ex-girlfriends.
We both had a massage appointment. We were told that this is going to be a SENSUAL massage, NOT a sports massage.
That means: no squeezing, no kneading.
Of course, I had low expectations, which, however, were absolutely EXCEEDED.
In fact, it was the best massage of my life.
The gracious masseuse revealed her secret to me. She said, “There is power in gentleness.”
And what kind of dating coach would I be if I didn’t translate everything right away to the topic of dating?
When it comes to turning a woman on, the woman with the magic hands is right: gentleness is extremely effective.
Although I doubt she uses them to seduce women, but who knows?
Whether it’s a date, kissing, foreplay in bed… Gentle touches are a must.
Later you can still grab her firmly, but only doing that and doing it too soon, comes across as too aggressive.
And when I say “gentle,” I mean gentle.
Try to give yourself goose bumps by stroking your inner forearm.
You’ll find that it only works, when you do it very gently.
But which parts should you touch?
- Back
- Neck
- Face
- Ears
- Arms
- Hands
… are excellent to get the ladies excited.
Imagine you are standing calmly in front of a woman, slowly approaching her and gently tucking her hair behind her ear while you look into her eyes with a confident smile…
There would be a short circuit in the woman’s brain, she might even forget to breathe for a second and all she could think would be:
You’re well on your way to making women horny around you 24/7 😉
With the final two tips, there is no stopping you making women aroused. And then I haven’t even talked about the bonus at the end.
Let’s quickly continue.
Tip #6: Kiss her passionately
What makes women really horny for sex is a GOOD, passionate kiss.
I’ve heard women say they thought a guy was hot until he kissed her…
Women often use the way you kiss as an indication of how good you are in bed. And to be honest, I do the same, when I kiss women…
If it doesn’t turn me on, I usually leave it at that.
That’s why my absolute pro tip to you is:
Be an excellent kisser.
-> 7 Kissing Tips and Techniques to Become an Amazing Kisser
Tip #7: Be sexy
There are men with sex appeal.
Think about it:
- Ryan Gosling
- George Clooney
- Brad Pitt
- Chris Hemsworth
- Johnny Depp
- The author of this article
Women from all over the world go crazy about them. They find them so gorgeous that they send their best friends pictures of them for their birthdays…
Yeah, they all look good. But there are many attractive actors women are not completely crazy about.
Why is that?
What is the secret of Ryan Gosling and Co.?
And how can YOU become a sexually attractive man?
The sex appeal code has been cracked!
Check out this article to find out all the ways to become irresistible for women.
Bonus tip: Become a sex god
When you read through this article, there is a good chance that you hoped for sex tips.
I am not going to let you down.
In fact, I love to give sex tips. Because far too many women are unsatisfied…
There are few men who are true sex gods in bed and can make women sexually addicted to them.
This art can be learned. Believe it or not, but for a long time, I was a total failure in bed.
From premature ejaculation to the inability to get women to come, I had to fight my way through the jungle of all sorts of problems.
Fortunately, I had the chance to meet many women, try out a lot of things in bed and refine my wicked ways of giving them mind-bending orgasms…
→ What Women Want in Bed: 10 Ways to be Her Sex God
Now you know how to make women horny
Okay, there you have it: 7 tips to make women’s lust shoot through the ceiling.
Keep in mind, though:
Use them wisely.
They’re powerful, and you don’t want to make the wrong woman sexually dependent on you.
Fair enough.
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Alright, I gotta go… and save men from the friend zone… Duty calls.
Your bro,
Dan de Ram
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