She’s texting less, should you be worried? Find out the 10 big reasons why she’s texting less, and what you can do about it.
You’re texting with a nice woman.
It was going so well at first, but her replies are taking longer and longer to arrive.
You feel her slowly slipping away and you don’t understand why.
That’s why you will now get 10 reasons why she texts less and doesn’t get back to you.
Furthermore, you’ll get tips so that she texts you back quickly.
- #1: Do this first if she texts less or doesn’t text back
- #2: Is she texting less enthusiastically? Here are the 4 main reasons
- #3: Does she still like you if she doesn’t text back?
- #4: Send her this if she doesn’t respond
- #5: Prevent her from stopping texting
- #6: Prevent her from texting less in the following ways
- #7: Do this so she stays glued to her phone with you
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After reading this article, you’ll always know what to do when things get quiet over chat.
#1: Do this first if she texts less or doesn’t text back
The conversation was going so well a short time ago, so her disinterest comes completely unexpected.
What does it mean when a girl stops texting you as much?
No matter how many times you analyze your WhatsApp messages, you can’t figure it out.
But for the time being, it doesn’t matter if you have done something wrong.
The biggest danger to contacting that nice girl is not a message from earlier….
…It’s your burning desire to get a text message from her.
And because you’re so longing for her text message, you’re about to make one or more of the following three mistakes.
Mistakes that could ruin your chances with her forever:
- Getting angry because she’s ignoring you, “We don’t seem to be answering anymore?”
- Playing the butthurt victim, “Sorry to annoy you with my messages”
- Transforming into a happy puppy when she suddenly does respond, “How nice of you to respond again :DDDDDDDDDDD”
See how these messages can scare her off?
Therefore, the first thing you want to do is put your phone away and focus your attention on something else.
Only when you are more relaxed do you want to consider sending her a message.
So what do you send her at such a time?
You’ll get great examples when she starts apping you less in the next tips
#2: Is she texting less enthusiastically? Here are the 4 main reasons
If you don’t know what’s going on, texting her is the biggest mistake you can make.
Perhaps it is completely out of your control and you are worrying for nothing.
Or maybe you did something wrong and seeking more contact only makes the problem worse.
So texting her is incredibly dangerous until you know what’s going on.
That’s why we’re going to go through the main four reasons right now.
- She is busy and in all the frenzy she forgot to give you an answer.
- She’s going through a dip. She is sick, a friend is having a difficult time, a family member has died, or she is angry at her hairdresser because she is now walking around with a bird’s nest on her head.
- She doesn’t trust you. This often happens when you try too hard to be funny and buffoonish. Sure you are entertaining then, but you are not someone she can trust. After all, she recognizes that you are not your relaxed self.
- She is no longer interested. Maybe too much time has passed, maybe she’s met someone else, or maybe Mercury is in Capricorn.
Are you panicking at this point? Then read this article or move on to the next tip:
#3: Does she still like you if she doesn’t text back?
After this tip, you can easily recognize if you’ve scared her off or if she’s simply busy.
So how do you find out if you still have a chance with her?
By looking at your WhatsApp conversation.
What are you looking for?
Certain texting habits that usually bleed a conversation to death.
The most dangerous are:
- Asking too many questions
- Playing it safe by never expressing conflicting opinions
- An overly serious vibe
Do you recognize these habits in your WhatsApp conversation?
Then it is very likely that you have cockblocked yourself by being boring.
On the other hand, when you read your WhatsApp conversation, are you laughing your ass off?
Then you almost certainly gave her a good time. In that case, she probably read your messages but forgot to respond to you.
Want to get a better idea of whether she likes you?
This article explains exactly what signs you should look out for!
#4: Send her this if she doesn’t respond
You’re going to learn how to bring dead conversations to life faster than a necromancer from World of Warcraft.
No human sacrifice required, just a good message.
No worries, I’ll give you that message in a minute. But first I’ll give you the underlying principle.
The trick to making a woman who texts less interested in you is…
… reminding her of the connection.
You were having a good time with each other once, right?
What did you talk about when the conversation was going so smoothly?
That’s what you’re going to remind her of now.
What do you send her?
- A meme that reminds you of the conversation
- A song by her favorite artist
- An announcement that you just watched an episode of that particular series
- A picture of her favorite animal at the zoo
Do you remind her of a special moment that only you shared with her?
If so, an answer from her is 96% guaranteed!
#5: Prevent her from stopping texting
Fixing WhatsApp blunders is good. But preventing WhatsApp blunders is gold.
So how do you make sure you don’t end up in this situation in the future?
By making sure you avoid the following three mistakes.
You are too polite
Listen, politeness is a good thing.
But you can also be TOO polite.
And by that I mean especially this:
Giving everything a positive spin because you want to avoid negative vibes at all costs.
Accounting is a funny profession? Since when?
Now I don’t blame you for anything, after all the above scenario is fiction, but you really want to cut down on fake positivity.
After all, speaking to a Jolly Jordy gets old real fast.
Besides, yes-men give her the idea that you will like everything she does and says.
From this point on, she can no longer trust you.
And, consequently, can no longer like you.
So be yourself and speak your true mind.
IMPORTANT: You really don’t have to become a blunt jerk right now, but sometimes playful countering gives your WhatsApp conversation that much-needed spice.
You are boring
No one wants to hear that they’re boring.
But if you’re really not the best company then you would like to know.
After all, that’s the only way to grow, right?
Good. Boring peeps are heroes when it comes to going off the beaten path.
Therefore, their favorite questions are the following (beware, the following phrases may be shocking):
- “So, what do you do?”
- “Tell me a little about yourself.”
- “What do you do for fun?”
* grabs vomit bucket *
Okay, so these questions you want to burn out of your vocabulary with a flamethrower.
Not only has she seen these phrases come along a thousand times, but they are also extremely difficult to answer.
How do you become a fun conversationalist?
By bringing up playful and original topics.
Topics like you can read about in this article:
You are trying too hard
If you don’t recognize yourself in the “boring” category, you’re probably in this one:
Clown & Co.
Your mind is focused on one thing 24/7:
First of all, my compliments to you for trying to break away from the boring.
After all, you are certainly not boring.
But… you’re probably pretty exhausting, though.
After all, it’s like talking to a clown: no matter what you say, you’ll ALWAYS get a corny and superficial response back.
So what do you want to do to hold her interest?
Dose your humor.
Be a clown SOMETIMES.
And alternate this with serious, intelligent, and sharp comments.
Make her feel like you take her seriously, and use humor where appropriate.
#6: Prevent her from texting less in the following ways
With the following three tips, she’ll be looking forward to your next WhatsApp message with hungry eyes.
Going against the flow
Maybe you are familiar with the saying: only dead fish swim with the flow.
This might as well be about WhatsApp.
Men who always go with the flow are predictable and boring.
Do you, on the other hand, go against the flow? Then you distinguish yourself from the rest and she immediately finds you interesting.
But what does going against the flow mean exactly?
Well, it means that you are not afraid to push her away from you playfully.
You can do that by expressing an opposite opinion, for example.
But going against the flow is actually what you do most by changing the vibe of the conversation.
For example, suppose she gives you a compliment:
Most men would thank her now or come back with another compliment.
So these guys go with the flow.
How might you playfully go against the flow here?
By sending the following message.
By going against the flow, you make yourself interesting.
Ask better questions
Asking good questions is an art.
It is super valuable and the ladies love it.
You will now discover how to ask good questions.
First, let’s discuss the opposite.
A bad question.
In other words, a closed question.
When you ask questions that she can only answer with ‘yes’ or ‘no’, your conversation will die faster than a cup of lukewarm beer on a hot festival day.
Of course, it’s much more fun for her if your questions make it easier for her to participate in the conversation.
But before she will, she has to like the topic of course!
That’s why I wrote this article for you:
I understand that seeing “Tinder” may confuse you a bit, but the questions and phrases work just as well on WhatsApp.
Test it out and see for yourself.
#7: Do this so she stays glued to her phone with you
Just making sure you avoid bad messages is not enough to conquer her.
If you want to make her crazy about you, you have to do something else.
Namely, send her exciting messages that are so irresistibly fun that she will respond before you can say “Supercallifragilisticexpialidocious”.
But how exactly do you do this?
By challenging her, making her laugh or teasing her every now and then.
Then you’ll have no problem with girls texting you less.
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