So, you like mature older ladies.
Strange?
Not at all.
Older women exude warm-hearted maturity that is often missed in young women.
They’re more experienced, cry less and can still look forbidden hot (like Nicole Petallides).
Even though older women aren’t explicitly part of my ‘predator-prey system’, I was lucky to enjoy the company of an older woman every now and then.
At least that’s how my friends put it.
In reality, it had little to do with luck. I paid attention to some important things that work especially well with older women.
You can find out what these things are in my 9 tips today.
Besides, you learn:
- 5 Differences between a mature woman and a full-aged girl
- How to flirt with older women/ MILFs: 3 flirt lines that work especially well with older women
- What is the biggest desire of older women and how you can give them what they long for (my #1 tip for mature hookups)
- What to look for when you want a relationship with an older woman
- And much more tips how to flirt with single mature women…
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Before we start with the tips, we should be on the same wavelength.
When I say ‘older women’, I mean all conspecifics who are between 30 and 50 years old.
If granny sex is your thing and you want to learn how to make an 80-year-old your personal bitch, then I must disappoint you. This article isn’t for you.
You want to meet and seduce a woman between 30 and 50? And learn how to master the art of flirting with older women?
Then you’ve come to the right place.
5 good reasons to date mature women
Women in their twenties have claimed most of the male attention.
That’s not much of a miracle.
They have shiny hair, soft, wrinkle-free skin and a firm body.
Then there’s no reason to go for older women, is there?
Not so fast! Here are 5 reasons:
Reason #1: They’re emotionally more mature
Young women are known for drama, negativity and annoying behavior. I’m not saying that you don’t have to expect this from older women, but you’ll find that they’re much more affable and in need of harmony.
Reason #2: They’re more confident
Ah, yes… confident women… God bless them!
They don’t immediately get jealous when you talk to other women, they don’t get paranoid if they don’t get any messages from you for a day, and they don’t get pessimistic if something doesn’t go according to plan.
Older women often have stronger self-esteem. Their life experience ensures that they know exactly what they’re capable of.
Reason #3: They’re better in bed
The more experienced a woman is in bed, the better she will be. That’s logical.
Older women know what they like, can let themselves go easier and give you the kind of orgasm that makes you color-blind for a short time.
Reason #4: They’re less naive
They have experienced enough shit to think that you’ll always carry them on your hands and get married in a castle garden under a magnificent oak tree.
>> How To Develop The 7 Masculine Traits Women Find Attractive.
They have replaced all false ideas of romance and love with common sense. That can be useful.
Reason #5: They have more money
The older a person is, the more money he has. Statistically speaking, this is true.
But no great wonder. After all, they had more time to earn money.
I’m not saying that you should get a sugar mummy, but let’s not pretend that her solid, financial starting position won’t be an advantage one day.
9 tips to seduce an older woman
These reasons have convinced you and you’re now desperate to know how you can get an older woman to date you?
Then stop scratching your balls and focus, because here come…
Tip #1: Where you can meet older women
Everywhere!
Next tip.
You don’t have to limit yourself to certain places – you can meet older women everywhere. They don’t hide in their basement. They actually go out into the daylight like normal people.
Still, you’d be a fool to expect a surplus of older women in every club.
Find out which clubs and bars are also visited by older women.
In every city I travel to I have mainly two go-to-clubs, where the age range of the visitors is very broad.
If I have younger coaching student, I go into the one, if I have older ones, I go into the other. Simple.
The same applies to dating apps and pages.
The average age on Tinder is significantly lower than on OkCupid or similar sites.
Here I have a list of dating sites for you, where I have indicated the average age of the users, so that you can choose the site for you that best fits your needs:
>> How to Approach a Lady on the Street: From ‘Hi’ to Date in 5 Steps.
Tip #2: What older women want from young men
Mature women are constantly competing with new, young women.
With every passing day, a new girl turns 18 who is younger and more attractive.
And the more their youthful attractiveness fades, the tougher the competition becomes.
As a result, they get less often approached and receive fewer compliments.
But if you’re the one who can make her feel young and desirable, she will love you for it.
She’ll think:
And this thought makes her feel good about herself.
>> How To Court a Woman Successfully? 7 Tips to Make Her Fall For You.
So, look at her from head to toe and make it clear how extraordinarily attractive you find her.
Tip #3: Grow up
Look at these pictures:
You had to giggle like a schoolgirl in the back row because you immediately thought about sex?
Then you don’t even need to try it with older women.
They think little of childish behavior.
Even if she wants to fool around with you, she doesn’t want to be your mother.
When they’re desired by a young man, they feel extra flattered. But babysitting isn’t one of their hobbies.
So, show her that you’re a young man with mature behavior.
- Stop dressing like a teenager
- Behave masculine
- Be humorous, but no clown
- Be honest and direct (older women don’t like games)
Let me go into more detail on that last point.
>> What Do Women Like in Men? The 7 Most Attractive Qualities.
Tip #4: Seduce her with honesty
You can’t fool a MILF.
They’ve experienced everything. They know all the tricks. And they can spot ‘gamey’ behavior from a distance.
They can do without a man who doesn’t know what he wants.
That’s why they’ll appreciate your honesty.
It’s best to be direct when you approach them. For example, by saying:
Remember? Older women want to feel young and desirable. So charming comments about their appearance are appreciated.
Once the conversation gets more intimate, you can say things like:
It’s a good plan to make her realize the effect she has on you.
Your intentions shouldn’t be a secret either. For example, to get her number, you could say:
Be honest, take a cheeky ‘what we could do with each other…’ look and watch out for the next tip…
>> Conversation With a Girl: 5 Tips for Smooth Flirts (+Examples).
Tip #5: Don’t say stupid things
If there is one thing that ruins your chances with women, it’s stupid things you say or text.
Let’s be honest: With young women it’s less tragic because they say stupid things themselves.
But older women have a lower tolerance level for this.
Things you’d better not say are, for example:
- “Why aren’t you married yet?”
- “What are you studying?”
- “You look good for your age”
- “I would guess that you’re about 36”
Nevertheless, there are three methods to minimize the garbage that slides out of you:
- Let her participate more into your conversation
- Take your time with your answers instead of impulsively answering
- Get a cheat sheet with outstanding lines
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Tip #6: Why you don’t always have to wear the pants
The willingness to take the lead is an elementary skill of every good seducer.
Older women are women too. That means the same principles apply.
However, you can relax much more with older women, amigo.
Often, they themselves are very dominant. So if you just take them by the hand and pull them behind you like a toddler, it can look very weird.
The look she’ll give her friend when you’re too eager to take the lead…
Don’t forget that she’s 10, 15 or even 20 years older than you.
So, don’t make it a fight about which one of you is wearing the pants, but enjoy the fact that a woman can decide for both of you.
Tip #7: Talk as little about age as possible
This is a point where many men fail.
You allow the woman to make a big thing out of old age.
I would talk about it as little as possible.
Often, however, women insist on it and ask the famous question:
What you are supposed to answer?
There are many possibilities:
I can rarely recommend a serious answer to this question. That would put her in a rational state where she’ll decide you’re too young for her.
By the way, you shouldn’t pretend that age difference doesn’t exist.
She’s older. You know it. She knows it. Neither of you can fool the other.
Instead of ignoring the age difference, you should use it to your advantage by creating a kind of ‘toy boy fantasy’.
>> How to Hookup with a Girl – from ‘Hi’ to Hookup in 9 Steps.
Tip #8: Sex with mature women?
You should never forget the reason why she got involved with a young boss like you in the first place:
She wants to enjoy your young, dynamic energy.
This is especially true with sex.
So, if you think you can take it easy or allow a bad performance to happen, then her interest will take its leave.
But if you can give her what an older man can’t, then fun times are waiting for you, my friend.
Because an older woman knows exactly what to do to make sure you want her even more.
>> The Art of Dominating a Woman in Bed in 5 Tips.
Tip #9: A relationship with single mature women?
One of my childhood friends lived out every schoolboy’s dream:
He entered a relationship with his teacher.
And suddenly not a single student missed math class…
He was 17, she was 31.
After all, they were together for three years.
But at some point, they realized that they were in too different phases of their lives, which didn’t want to fit together at all.
She had a job and wanted children and he had no idea about the world yet. And barely a hair on his balls…
As I said before, older women are also women. The same principles also apply in a relationship.
Be aware, however, that she may want to move the relationship forward faster than you would like.
So, watch out for contraception. Use your own condoms.
Now you know how to seduce older women
Maybe you’ve convinced yourself that you’re too young for single mature women.
Or that this is only possible in movies.
But it’s reality, my friend.
When my buddy ran off with his teacher, nobody could believe it either.
Anyway…
If you want to live the MILF dream, you now know what you have to do.
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*Brofist*
Dan de Ram
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